The Oral MethodClitoral Orgasm using your Mouth & Tongue
Oral Method GENERAL RULES
The mouth and tongue are the clitoris’s favourite playmates. The precision, flexibility and softness of the tongue; the kissing, gripping and sucking abilities of the lips; and the sheer wetness of the mouth, simply make cunnilingus an incredible treat. If you add to this some of the techniques and moves set out below, your woman will be having clitoral orgasms every time you engage in oral clitoral play.
Direct and Indirect Stimulation
Most women prefer a mix of direct and indirect clitoral head stimulation when it comes to oral play. The delicacy and “give” of the tongue means direct stimulation will be more comfortable. Be sure to give her plenty of indirect stimulation too, as you would with your fingers/hands. The tongue and mouth are powerful enough to stimulate through fabric and the vaginal lips. Mouth and tongue action on the clitoral hood is also divine.
There are many indirect ways to orally stimulate the clitoral area, here are a few ideas:
- Licking and sucking her clitoral area through her panties.
- Pressing your mouth and tongue against the sides of her vaginal lips; which in turn push against the clitoral area.
- Pinch the vaginal lips together with your mouth and massage the clitoris between the vaginal lips using your lips and tongue. The combination of your wet mouth encasing her vaginal lips, and the fleshy tissue of the lips pressing against her clitoral area will blow her mind.
- Sucking and licking the clitoral hood
These indirect techniques again allow you to carry out repetitive movements in order to bring her to orgasm. Remember, repetitive movements are essential to achieving clitoral orgasm, particularly when she is close to orgasm.
Warm-Up
For each oral technique set out below, try delivering some gentle introductory tongue flicks or licks to the particular area; in order to warm her up to the full stimulation.
Experimentation
Try out the various oral techniques set out below and ask your partner which ones triggered orgasmic sensations. You should work together to master the best oral techniques for her.
Repetition & Consistency
It is important to do repetitive and consistent oral movements when you notice she is approaching orgasm. You could agree an “orgasm signal” (such as a squeeze of her hand) so that she can alert you when you need to be consistent. You can of course do a variety of techniques and movements when starting out. Most women actually prefer a variety of oral movements during arousal.
Pressure Considerations
When delivering oral stimulation, you have more legroom than when using your hands. However, if your woman’s clitoral head is highly sensitive then repetitive direct stimulation of the clitoral head may cause her discomfort. Check with her as to whether she wants direct stimulation of the clitoral head or monitor her reactions.
Positions
It is a good idea to try out different positions in order to give her a variety of moves for oral clitoral stimulation. There are so many to choose from and changing things up will add extra excitement to the proceedings. You may find that certain positions result in a better response from her.
You can also do a number of oral positions sequentially in order to surprise her with different moves. Visit our Female Oral Series Section to view and practice some female oral sequences.
New oral positions will also be very exciting for you and will give you different angles with which to tease the clitoral area. Have a look through the 50 sample oral positions below, you are guaranteed to find some new ones to try.
Oral Method GENERAL RULES
The mouth and tongue are the clitoris’s favourite playmates. The precision, flexibility and softness of the tongue; the kissing, gripping and sucking abilities of the lips; and the sheer wetness of the mouth, simply make cunnilingus an incredible treat. If you add to this some of the techniques and moves set out below, your woman will be having clitoral orgasms every time you engage in oral clitoral play.
Direct and Indirect Stimulation
Most women prefer a mix of direct and indirect clitoral head stimulation when it comes to oral play. The delicacy and “give” of the tongue means direct stimulation will be more comfortable. Be sure to give her plenty of indirect stimulation too, as you would with your fingers/hands. The tongue and mouth are powerful enough to stimulate through fabric and the vaginal lips. Mouth and tongue action on the clitoral hood is also divine.
There are many indirect ways to orally stimulate the clitoral area, here are a few ideas:
1) Licking and sucking her clitoral area through her panties.
2) Pressing your mouth and tongue against the sides of her vaginal lips; which in turn push against the clitoral area.
3) Pinch the vaginal lips together with your mouth and massage the clitoris between the vaginal lips using your lips and tongue. The combination of your wet mouth encasing her vaginal lips, and the fleshy tissue of the lips pressing against her clitoral area will blow her mind.
4) Sucking and licking the clitoral hood
These indirect techniques again allow you to carry out repetitive movements in order to bring her to orgasm. Remember, repetitive movements are essential to achieving clitoral orgasm, particularly when she is close to orgasm.
Warm-Up
For each oral technique set out below, try delivering some gentle introductory tongue flicks or licks to the particular area; in order to warm her up to the full stimulation.
Experimentation
Try out the various oral techniques set out below and ask your partner which ones triggered orgasmic sensations. You should work together to master the best oral techniques for her.
Repetition & Consistency
It is important to do repetitive and consistent oral movements when you notice she is approaching orgasm. You could agree an “orgasm signal” (such as a squeeze of her hand) so that she can alert you when you need to be consistent. You can of course do a variety of techniques and movements when starting out. Most women actually prefer a variety of oral movements during arousal.
Pressure Considerations
When delivering oral stimulation, you have more legroom than when using your hands. However, if your woman’s clitoral head is highly sensitive then repetitive direct stimulation of the clitoral head may cause her discomfort. Check with her as to whether she wants direct stimulation of the clitoral head or monitor her reactions.
Positions
It is a good idea to try out different positions in order to give her a variety of moves for oral clitoral stimulation. There are so many to choose from and changing things up will add extra excitement to the proceedings. You may find that certain positions result in a better response from her.
You can also do a number of oral positions sequentially in order to surprise her with different moves. Visit our Female Oral Series Section to view and practice some female oral sequences.
New oral positions will also be very exciting for you and will give you different angles with which to tease the clitoral area. Have a look through the 50 sample oral positions below, you are guaranteed to find some new ones to try.
50 Female Oral Sex Positions
Stirring
Breath of Pleasure
Legs Up
Lover's Stool
Assassin
Assassin Lean
Assassin Fold
Assassin Bend
Closed for Business
Straight Up
The Oz
The Oz Raise
Trick or Treat
Under the Hood
Queen
Flagpole
Edge One Up
Cliffhanger
Edge Off
Four Leaf Clover
Thermometer
Reverse Butterfly
Bird Feeder
Reverse Butterfly Lean
Reverse Butterfly Sprawl
Heir to the Throne
Edge Off Wrap
Straddle
Leg Up Ride
Snorkelling
Abdomiser
Sixty Eight
Acosta
Madam Curie
Doll Valley
Back Stroke
Azalea
End is Near
Queening
Queening Perch
Queening Waterfall
Hovering Butterfly
Butterfly Lean
Butterfly Rest
Laid Back Raise
Laid Back
Muzzle
Air Kiss
Butterfly on Wall
Open Door
SOLO TONGUE PLAYDifferent formations for your tongue to deliver a variety of sensations
SOLO TONGUE PLAYDifferent formations for your tongue to deliver a variety of sensations
Tip of the Tongue
Stick your tongue out & tense it up
- Circling movements: On outer edge of the clitoris & clitoral head
- Side to Side Flicks: Top of the clitoral hood & clitoral head
- In and out Jabs: On clitoral head & general clitoral area
- Figure 8: Work around the clitoris & vaginal opening
Blade of the Tongue
Stick your tongue out and keep it flat
- Licking movements: Side to side on clitoral head or clitoral area
- Head Circles: Rest tongue on clitoris & move head in circular motions
- Wiggling: Lower chin to chest and wiggle tongue against clitoral area
- Figure 8: Around clitoris & vaginal opening
Underside of the Tongue
Poke your tongue out and lift it upwards
- Circling movements: Place on clitoral hood & make small circular movements.
- Wiggle side to side: Against clitoral hood and/or head
- Come here movement: Against clitoral area. Open your mouth wide.
Tip of the Tongue
Stick your tongue out & tense it up
- Circling movements: On outer edge of the clitoris & clitoral head
- Side to Side Flicks: Top of the clitoral hood & clitoral head
- In and out Jabs: On clitoral head & general clitoral area
- Figure 8: Work around the clitoris & vaginal opening
Blade of the Tongue
Stick your tongue out and keep it flat
- Licking movements: Side to side on clitoral head or clitoral area
- Head Circles: Rest tongue on clitoris & move head in circular motions
- Wiggling: Lower chin to chest and wiggle tongue against clitoral area
- Figure 8: Around clitoris & vaginal opening
Underside of the Tongue
Poke your tongue out and lift it upwards
- Circling movements: Place on clitoral hood & make small circular movements.
- Wiggle side to side: Against clitoral hood and/or head
- Come here movement: Against clitoral area. Open your mouth wide.
Flaccid Tongue
Extend you tongue just beyond your lips & keep flaccid
- Side to side: Move your head from side to side with flaccid tongue on both the clitoral head & hood
- Up & Down: Nod head with flaccid tongue on clitoral head, sides & hood
Tongue & Teeth
Stretch your tongue over your top teeth
- Side Shake: Face clitoral hood sideways. Press bottom of tongue over your bottom teeth and shake your head from side to side. Work tongue up and down clitoral head.
- Nodding: Face clitoral hood and start nodding your head. Run tongue up and down from top of hood down to below the clitoris.
Open Mouth
Open your mouth wide and let your tongue hang out loosely
- Crazy lapping: Open mouth wide & shield teeth with lips. Place tongue on clitoral area & move head in different directions
Flaccid Tongue
Extend you tongue just beyond your lips & keep flaccid
- Side to side: Move your head from side to side with flaccid tongue on both the clitoral head & hood
- Up & Down: Nod head with flaccid tongue on clitoral head, sides & hood
Tongue & Teeth
Stretch your tongue over your top teeth
- Side Shake: Face clitoral hood sideways. Press bottom of tongue over your bottom teeth and shake your head from side to side. Work tongue up and down clitoral head.
- Nodding: Face clitoral hood and start nodding your head. Run tongue up and down from top of hood down to below the clitoris.
Open Mouth
Open your mouth wide and let your tongue hang out loosely
- Crazy lapping: Open mouth wide & shield teeth with lips. Place tongue on clitoral area & move head in different directions
MOUTH & TONGUE PLAYTry working the mouth and tongue in unison; together they deliver maximum pleasure.
Oral moves for yourmouth & tongue
There are a number of mouth & tongue combos that you can try to bring her to clitoral orgasm. Test them all out and see which ones you both prefer.
Clitoral Hood Engulf & Tongue Circles
Engulf her clitoral hood with your mouth; planting your lips firmly around the edges. Now suck slowly with your lips and gently circle your tongue on the clitoral head. If necessary, use your fingers to separate the vaginal lips for better access.
Full Engulf and Vaginal Opening Tease
Plant your mouth over the entire vulva and place your top lip on the clitoral hood. Now move your top lip up and down and let your tongue circle the vaginal opening and enter it occasionally. In this position, you can also keep the tongue inserted in the vagina whilst your top lip stimulates the clitoris.
Side Suck and Tongue Rub
Make a small oval with your mouth and plant it down one side of the clitoral hood. Now use your tongue to rub and flick against the side of the of the clitoris. Vary the pressure and speed to deliver different sensations, with an occasional flick to the clitoris head. You can repeatedly move from one side of the hood to the other until she is close to orgasm; at which time you should remain on one side until orgasm is reached.
Full Mouth Cross Stroke
Face her vulva from a sideways angle and plant your open mouth across the top of the clitoral head. Now lick your tongue back and forth across the clitoral head. Try moving your your lips in a sucking/French kissing motion to help bring the clitoris to orgasm. Ensure that you maintain a regular repetitive rhythm, with your tongue and lips working in unison.
The Fish
Face her vulva from a fully sideways angle and plant a partially open mouth on top of the clitoral head. Now start making circles with your tongue around the clitoral head and on the clitoris. At the same time move your lips in a gobbling motions; think of the moves a fish makes with its mouth. Ensure that you maintain a regular rhythm, with your tongue and mouth working together.
Mons Pubis French Kissing
The mons pubis is a great section to stimulate as it is connected directly to the clitoris through a nerve network. Plant your mouth sideways across her mons pubis and flick your tongue around the top of the clitoral head. After some deep sucking and teasing of the mons pubis, work yourself down to the clitoral hood and head. Continue your mouth sucking and tongue teasing here to bring her to orgasm.
Oral moves for yourmouth & tongue
There are a number of mouth & tongue combos that you can try to bring her to clitoral orgasm. Test them all out and see which ones you both prefer.
Clitoral Hood Engulf & Tongue Circles
Engulf her clitoral hood with your mouth; planting your lips firmly around the edges. Now suck slowly with your lips and gently circle your tongue on the clitoral head. If necessary, use your fingers to separate the vaginal lips for better access.
Full Engulf and Vaginal Opening Tease
Plant your mouth over the entire vulva and place your top lip on the clitoral hood. Now move your top lip up and down and let your tongue circle the vaginal opening and enter it occasionally. In this position, you can also keep the tongue inserted in the vagina whilst your top lip stimulates the clitoris.
Side Suck and Tongue Rub
Make a small oval with your mouth and plant it down one side of the clitoral hood. Now use your tongue to rub and flick against the side of the of the clitoris. Vary the pressure and speed to deliver different sensations, with an occasional flick to the clitoris head. You can repeatedly move from one side of the hood to the other until she is close to orgasm; at which time you should remain on one side until orgasm is reached.
Full Mouth Cross Stroke
Face her vulva from a sideways angle and plant your open mouth across the top of the clitoral head. Now lick your tongue back and forth across the clitoral head. Try moving your your lips in a sucking/French kissing motion to help bring the clitoris to orgasm. Ensure that you maintain a regular repetitive rhythm, with your tongue and lips working in unison.
The Fish
Face her vulva from a fully sideways angle and plant a partially open mouth on top of the clitoral head. Now start making circles with your tongue around the clitoral head and on the clitoris. At the same time move your lips in a gobbling motions; think of the moves a fish makes with its mouth. Ensure that you maintain a regular rhythm, with your tongue and mouth working together.
Mons Pubis French Kissing
The mons pubis is a great section to stimulate as it is connected directly to the clitoris through a nerve network. Plant your mouth sideways across her mons pubis and flick your tongue around the top of the clitoral head. After some deep sucking and teasing of the mons pubis, work yourself down to the clitoral hood and head. Continue your mouth sucking and tongue teasing here to bring her to orgasm.
Oral moves for yourmouth & tongue
There are a number of mouth & tongue combos that you can try to bring her to clitoral orgasm. Test them all out and see which ones you both prefer.
Clitoral Hood Engulf & Tongue Circles
Engulf her clitoral hood with your mouth; planting your lips firmly around the edges. Now suck slowly with your lips and gently circle your tongue on the clitoral head. If necessary, use your fingers to separate the vaginal lips for better access.
Full Engulf and Vaginal Opening Tease
Plant your mouth over the entire vulva and place your top lip on the clitoral hood. Now move your top lip up and down and let your tongue circle the vaginal opening and enter it occasionally. In this position, you can also keep the tongue inserted in the vagina whilst your top lip stimulates the clitoris.
Side Suck and Tongue Rub
Make a small oval with your mouth and plant it down one side of the clitoral hood. Now use your tongue to rub and flick against the side of the of the clitoris. Vary the pressure and speed to deliver different sensations, with an occasional flick to the clitoris head. You can repeatedly move from one side of the hood to the other until she is close to orgasm; at which time you should remain on one side until orgasm is reached.
Full Mouth Cross Stroke
Face her vulva from a sideways angle and plant your open mouth across the top of the clitoral head. Now lick your tongue back and forth across the clitoral head. Try moving your your lips in a sucking/French kissing motion to help bring the clitoris to orgasm. Ensure that you maintain a regular repetitive rhythm, with your tongue and lips working in unison.
The Fish
Face her vulva from a fully sideways angle and plant a partially open mouth on top of the clitoral head. Now start making circles with your tongue around the clitoral head and on the clitoris. At the same time move your lips in a gobbling motions; think of the moves a fish makes with its mouth. Ensure that you maintain a regular rhythm, with your tongue and mouth working together.
Mons Pubis French Kissing
The mons pubis is a great section to stimulate as it is connected directly to the clitoris through a nerve network. Plant your mouth sideways across her mons pubis and flick your tongue around the top of the clitoral head. After some deep sucking and teasing of the mons pubis, work yourself down to the clitoral hood and head. Continue your mouth sucking and tongue teasing here to bring her to orgasm.
